In Jude 3 we are told to earnestly contend for the faith. In this context Jude is referring to the false teachers that had crept in to the church unnoticed. As God’s children we are called to live a life that is faithful to God and His Word. After all, His Word is His revelation of Himself to mankind. In it God tells us who He is and the nature of His character. We also find precepts for our lives in the Bible. These are not merely divine suggestions, but are commands of design. God has created us. When we live our lives according to His design we are most fulfilled and are living within the purpose for which we were created.
If we are living according to God’s commands, we will be contending for the faith at times. Whether we are struggling to keep the church pure or debating with nonbelievers for the purpose of showing them the truth of the faith, we are commanded by God to be ready to give a defense. But what does Peter have to save about how we should give a defense? He says, “but sanctify Christ as Lord in for hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who ask you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.” (1 Peter 3:15 NASB) You see we should be willing to earnestly contend and debate for the faith, but Peter ends that verse with a couple of qualifiers. How shall we defend the faith? With gentleness and reverence. Far to many Christians have crossed the line between gentleness and cruelty. We all had a tendency to become frustrated with nonbelievers. We want them to understand. We want them to know the truth because it is a matter of eternal significance. But that is never a license to be cruel and arrogant. Remember, the Christian hasn’t come to know the truth because they are smarter or better than lost people. We know the truth by the sheer mercy and grace of a loving God, who is infinitely worth of our praise. And that is exactly what we want for them, to know Him.
So when you give a defense of the gospel, whether at work or in the church, do it with compassion and love, not a critical spirit. God does’t need us to defend Him. He can take care of himself. Why then should we be defending the truth? We are defending the truth so that people will come to Christ, not to prove we are right. God will take care of that in the end. Our job is the share the truth in love!